Finally out of frustration he, lets call him Geoff, came to me and said he was sick of waiting as he had not had any positive feedback from his friend on when he might finish. I agreed to take on the project and got to work straight away. Although I had another important project underway I finished Geoff’s job in about ten days.

After I had finished the job I coincidentally I met the other supplier for the job at a social event and on discussing building websites in general (a common interest) he mentioned Geoff and said “I have had a job sitting around for a year perhaps you should take it as I and my website techie guy are a bit busy”. He went on and said with a smirk ‘I’m sure if you do it within a year Geoff will be happy. I found this attitude appalling and I know the supplier had actually had plenty of time to get the job done much earlier.

I had also used the other supplier for some creative work and printing some time in the past. My treatment was the same; he promised a lot and delivered very little. In the process he managed to insult me by telling me my existing printed material that his designs would be replacing was rubbish. Unbeknown to him I had designed the existing material myself. Now rubbish or not I still felt insulted.

So if we are looking t advance our career or just work effectively what are the lessons.

1. If you agree to take on a task get on with it with some sense of urgency.
2. “Bullshit may baffle brains” as the old saying goes however not for long.
3. Respect your customer’s let them know where you up to during a job’s progress.
4. Don’t take on work you can’t handle, as your inability to perform will destroy your credibility.
5. The cheapest quote is not always the best quote.
6. Your reputation is important and your slowness to act will always be publicized to others and can destroy your market and your brand, particularly your personal brand
7. Never scoff at the current work or product of your customer because you never know the history of how it got to be what it was or how attached they are to what they have.

Whether you are an employee or an independent contractor the old rule still stands, if you want to be seen as effective “say what you will do ad do it and say what you won’t do and don’t do it.

I am sure there are other lessons that can be drawn from this situation and hopefully you can add a comment to express your similar experiences and the lessons that those experiences teach.

So if you are unavailable for any reason what is the best “can’t come to the phone” explanation (excuse) that can be given. I suppose a simple “he’s out of the office” is OK however there is something I believe is better. “He/she is attending to another customer” for my money is the only phrase that will let me hang up without being annoyed at my inability to reach the parson I wanted to contact.

While I’m at it forget the “who’s calling please” it makes the caller feel as if your deciding if they are important enough to be put through. A better question is “may I tell him/her who’s calling”.

One last thing… never tell a customer, as someone did to me today, “he’s at lunch can you call back in an hour“, that’s terrible. Telephone diplomacy can win or lose you and your company great amounts of business!

Many connections or interactions are not much more than rituals which are just “meaningless, repetitive routines devoid of real contact”. If you find that each interaction with another individual always seems to be nothing more than a polite conversation that is just following an almost rehearsed script you are obviously not really communicating or building a relationship. These situations are often built around “pastimes that fill up time with others in social, however superficial activities”. A more dangerous scenario is when these ritualized interactions become the sum total of our ‘working activities with all tasks strictly following the rules and procedures of contact and nothing more’.

As humans are political animals by nature there will always be the risk (or opportunity) for the communicators to be plying games which are usually “subtle, manipulative interactions which are about winning and losing”. If those around you are engaging in game playing fruitful communication and the chances to build any meaningful “closeness” is unlikely.

Maybe your communication problems are in part due to your body language or your facial expressions however they are topics for another day.

So where do you start to build your skill to become a more effective communicator. I still find that if you can be brutally honest with yourself  a reflection on how you behave with others based on the old however still valid JOHARI WINDOW model can give you some insights. A better road if you can stand it is to have your friends or colleagues assess you based on the model.

For a quick look at your style are you fond of using any of the following tactics during interactions with others?

1. Attacking -interrogating, criticizing, blaming, shaming or scoffing

2. Being overly reliant on “You Messages” – moralizing, preaching, advising, diagnosing or talking about you and what you have done or achieved.

3. Showing your actual or perceived power with most your communication taking the form of orders, threats, commands or giving directives

4. Falling victim to other verbal barriers can including poor use of tone, shouting, name calling, verbal abuse, berating or even pouting and refusing to speak.

We need to remember that if any of these undesirable verbal tactics are used trust will be lost and no real interpersonal relationships will be formed.

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Finally: For effective communication to occur it must be two way, involve active listening, ‘reflect the accountability of speaker and listener’, utilize feedback, be free of stress and of course be clear and concise. The basic requirement for good communication is perhaps to develop a “closeness” with others that is built on open communication, mutual respect and above all trust.

refs:

wiki.answers.com/Q/How_can_you_overcome_communication_barriers

www.coachingachievement.co.uk/overcoming_communication_barriers

[  1% ]  was lost because of death

[  3% ]  were lost when their salesmen left the company

[  5% ]  left to buy from a friend or relative

[  9% ]  left because they found they could buy at lower prices

[ 14% ]  quit buying because of unadjusted complaints

[ 68% ]  quit buying from the company because the employees of the company were indifferent and showed lack of interest in the customer

What to do about it:

Provide recognition of your customers by setting up a system that instantly tells you who they are, easy with today’s technology!

Spend lots of time looking at your customer “touch points” and ensure your service systems are comprehensive and accurate and staff is well trained and committed to the customers.

Make sure full and accurate information is available on your products and services to all stakeholders, customers service staff and all contributors to the customer delivery process.

Make helpfulness, friendliness and professionalism core part of your corporate culture.

Protect your brand identity factors as a priority of your organization’s mission… look at Toyota as a good “bad example” and what failing to do this can mean.

Product quality and price – well if I need to write about these to basics I am wasting my and your time.

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Finally a few customer retention points based on an article by the Database Marketing Institute [www.dbmarketing.com]

Stop stressing price as a major basis for doing business

Know your customers are and treat them as valued individuals

Communicate with them effectively and often

Find special ways to build a relationship with them

Thank them for their business (thank you notes are still good)

Use your best customer service people with them

Build equity in the sales/buying process (through a system that provides rewards for volume business and for length of service/custom for both sides of the equation, staff and customers. i.e. Make it expensive to leave)

Train your customer service staff again and again and again

Helping the prospect through the buying process should be a conversation not a one person narrative. If you are using a script you are probably not listening to the customer nor understanding their wants… you are just pitching and pitching isn’t selling.

Are you working very very hard and still not making the sales?

THEY KEY TO BETTER SALES IS TRAINING YOUSELF TO BECOME THE CUSTOMER’S ‘ASSISTANT BUYER’

Do you look for the five steps of the buying process?

ATTENTION
INTEREST
CONVICTION
DESIRE
PURCHASE

Do you know how to respond effectively to the prospects state of mind and emotions at each of the five stages?

Have you done a sales training course, read a book or even an article on sales in the last 30 days?

If you want to be a real “SALESPERSON” which of the following phrases describe you…

1. long term associate
2. partnership seeker
3. trustworthy individual
4. communicative and a good listener
5. human relations expert
6. product/service expert
7. problem solver
8. referral getter
9. lead generator
10. attractive and well presented
11. caring and considerate
12. often with the customer
13. welcome if you call in unexpectedly,
14. always positive and active
15. someone to respect.

FLOGGING OR PITCHING IS NOT SELLING, IT’S A CON, SELLING IS KNOWING HOW TO BEST SOLVE A CUSTOMERS PROBLEM WITH THE APPROPRIATE SOLUTION

If you need the sales script you have not reached the level of selling competence in the product knowledge area (features, advantages and benefits) that you will need to succeed!

DO YOU UNDERSTAND AND PRACTICE THE “DON’T SELL, LISTEN” PRINCIPLE?

Being sold makes us all uncomfortable; pressure is pressure no matter how slickly it’s applied.

The book ‘High Probability Selling’ (Abba Publishing Company), by Ruben & Werth, proposes that the salesperson’s objective is ‘not to get the prospect to buy, rather to find out if there is a mutually acceptable basis to do business’. Sales success comes from being an expert in human relations; it’s about earning respect, using effective communication and particularly it’s about listening.

LISTENING to what you are being told during a sales appointment is still the best way to find a sale. By listening rather than talking you can uncover what the prospect is looking for and then you can provide the ‘fix’.

Just before I finish…

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REMEMBER it is hard if not impossible to listen, think and talk all at the same time!

Finally: If you do stay in sales and practice long and hard enough it can be on of the most personally rewarding and financially rewarding careers you can have.

AND

Its the product of the product that your customer is seeking… they don’t want your ALKA SELTZER nor even relief from pain they want to get on with what is important to them!

If a customer is abusive you must to make you first goal to calm the customer’s temper and take control of the situation. You need remain open and friendly, stay calm and keep your voice low and controlled. Tell the customer you are interested in his/her complaint and say ‘in order to help you I need to fully understand your problem’. Then ask ‘can you tell me what is wrong in a calm voice to ensure I focus on the problem (rather than the emotion) so I am better able to find a solution’. Let customer ‘vent his or her frustration’ and don’t interrupt. Telling you their complete story, and describing how upset they are, allows customers to release pent-up frustrations. It is wise to take notes as you go as it helps you with your response and shows the customer you are seriously interested in their problem.

BLAMING OTHERS IN YOUR ORGANIZATION

The worst tactic I have come across is a customer service officer trying to blame me, the customer, for the problem. Never play the blame game! Blaming the customer for the problem will dramatically worsen the situation. Also particularly never use the phrase ‘sir our system requires…‘ or even worse ‘sir you don’t understand our system’ (a common phrase with many service providers in Asia, especially bank staff).

Never blame others in your organization. Both the ‘system excuse’ and blaming others will be seen as evasive (or even worse cowardly) and destroy your credibility with the customer. No customer cares about your ‘problems’, they just want their problem solved. Accept responsibility as a representative of your company and place your efforts into solving the problem.

‘FRUSTRATION: HAVING TO RESIST THE TEMPTATION TO CHOKE THE LIVING S..T OUT OF SOMEONE WHO REALLY DESERVES IT!’ This is a funny saying however it has no place in customer complaint handling, in spite of the bad attitude of many customer service’s staff I have met (and trained) over the years.

GET THE ENTIRE STORY:

When the customer has told you the whole story regarding a complaint tell the customer what you will do to solve the problem. Do not tell the customer what he or she must do to solve the problem. Use phrases such as… ‘I will contact the xyz department’… ‘I will find the document’… ‘I will gather the necessary information’ etc. If you use ‘I’ in place of ‘you,’ you will help to minimise tension as it assures the customer that you are taking responsibility for the resolution of the issue. If you need to refer the matter to a third party always check back with the customer to ensure the other party has made contact and that the problem has been solved. Sure it’s wise to check with the third party to ensure a solution has been found first, however contacting the customer after the event will reinforce both your own and your company’s image. Important point never use the word ‘no’, either recommend a solution or suggest a compromise.

PROBLEM SOLVING AS A CHANCE TO LEARN AND IMPROVE

If you view problem solving as a chance to find out how to improve your company’s operation (or image) and as an opportunity to learn something, rather than a nasty experience, you can approach these difficult situations with a more positive frame of mind. In most complaint situations there are only win-win or lose-lose results. Everyone will win with satisfied customers as you can gain a positive company image and an advocate for you and your products/services (plus hopefully some personal satisfaction) or everyone can lose with upset customers and the gradual destruction of your company’s place in the market plus… personal emotional upset. Every time you allow someone else to change your emotional state YOU LOSE. Turn complaints into opportunities! In reality when you win, so does the customer and if you lose, so does the customer.

IT’S BETTER TO RECEIVE A COMPLAINT THAN HAVE AN EX-CUSTOMER THAT NEVER TELLS YOU WHY THEY LEFT!

FOLLOW-UP:

1. After you’ve resolved a customers’ complaint, it’s essential you place a record on file to ensure the next person handling the customer is aware of the problems encountered so they do not inadvertently ‘walk into a minefield’.
2. Best practice in customer service demands that we place a file note to give a little extra attention to the customer to reinforce the fact that the previous problem was a ‘one off’. This may well cement good future relations.
3. You must also ensure that the problem’s causes are analysed and counter measures are employed to make sure the same situation does not recur. If you learn a ‘better’ way you do business make the learning worthwhile and find a way for your company to make the changes required. Also the last thing you want is for any customer to have a similar problem let alone the same customer have two bad experiences in a row. If they do, chances are you’ve lost them (and all those they can influence) forever.

ONE UNANSWERED COMPLAINT CAN LEAD TO THE LOSS OF LARGE NUMBERS OF POTENTIAL CUSTOMERS

Effective or ’good’ customer service needs to be a company wide philosophy not just a procedure. Effective complaint handling is a key element to retaining customers. All job descriptions should contain a responsibility statement for all functions and levels of staff, regardless of their perceived requirement for direct customer contact (or not). In hiring interviews, orientation programmes and training sessions, emphasize that everyone is in the customer service business. Make sure that all employees understand how they directly or indirectly ‘effect’ the customer. Include customer service in all performance evaluations and set up a complaint recording system with a section to report outcomes and responsible personnel. Even if you don’t have a formal ‘Total Quality Management’ function ask employees to submit a list of the specific things they’ve done to help provide superior customer service. If ‘to serve a customer is the only reason for a business to exist’ (and it is) you need to be passionate about updating or modifying your staff’s attitudes and company procedures to eliminate as many complaints as you can.

LEARN TO LOVE COMPLAINTS, THEY ARE GUIDEPOSTS TO IMPROVED PERFORMANCE!

If you can view problem solving as a chance to find out how to improve your company’s operation (or image) and as an opportunity to learn something, rather than a nasty experience, you can approach these difficult situations with a more positive frame of mind. In most complaint situations there is only win-win or lose-lose results. Win with satisfied customers and a positive company image (plus personal satisfaction) or upset customers and the gradual destruction of your company’s hard fought place in the market and personal emotional upset. Every time you allow someone else to change your emotional state YOU LOSE. Turn complaints into opportunities! Remember when you win, so does the customer and if you lose, so does the customer.

Under the heading of “focus on the people who focus on the customers”, a manager’s customer service guide I once read (source unknown) stated:

“Make customer service a part of all written or verbal job descriptions—no matter the function or level. In hiring interviews, orientation, and on-the-job training, emphasize that everyone is in the customer service business. And make sure that all employees understand how they directly or indirectly ‘touch’ the customer.”

“Remember that people do what’s expected when it’s inspected! Include customer service in all performance evaluations. Prior to conducting evaluations, ask employees to submit a list of the specific things they’ve done to help provide superior customer service.”

“Go on a paralysing policy hunt! Ask employees to identify policies and procedures that get in the way of providing good service. Then do your best to update, modify, or eliminate as many as you can.”

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NOTE research indicates that:

1. Seven out of ten complaining customers will do business with you again if you resolve the complaint in their favour and if it is resolved on the spot, 95% will do business with you again.
2. A typical business hears from only 4% of its dissatisfied customers; the other 96% just go silently away and 91% of them will never come back.
3. A typical dissatisfied customer personally tells more than eight people about his or her problem. With today’s communication options and social media usage a dissatisfied customer may now publicize his or her dissatisfaction to thousands.

Talking of dissatisfaction… dissatisfied with your job? Take a look at the free blank resume form and update your resume perhaps!

Whether it’s online or through real locations simplicity of access is the key. Make sure your stock levels are well managed and matched to demand. Being out of stock is a sin. When it comes to online access test to web pages with new eyes or first time users to ensure the novice buyer is able to intuitively make a purchase. A great example of what not to do is Optus Australia… what a mess, must cost them a fortune in customer service calls/support inquiries. They have one of the worst web pages I have seen… see if you can link an account to your online access. They even stated you could pat with Paypal only to advise that actually for my prepaid wireless service they had changed policy and I couldn’t. One problem is packaging terms used in instructions don’t match online options, inconsistency in messages creates massive confusion.

Select positive and friendly staff who see serving customers as a pleasure.

You must train and train your staff to be helpful and friendly at all times with customers regardless of their own personal difficulties. I have been in three businesses recently one with a grumpy waitress, one with a stressed and defensive supervisor and one with a very helpful and pleasant sales assistant. One business will see me back I’m a loss to the other two… oh and so will my friends be.

Competence, speed and responsiveness from all organizational levels.

Again to mention Optus Australia. I was unable to get onto the net so I rang their support line. My 1^st question is there a problem with the wireless tower… no sir, OK what do I do. Could you restart your computer… OK tic tic restart, no that did not help. OK sir could you uninstall the program and reinstall… 5 minutes later, OK? no still not working… are you sure there’s not a problem with the tower… I’ll check Sir… no the tower is operational. Can you go to your local Optus shop and test your modem… rather not what else… It could be a settings problem are you using Microsoft?… no Apple and it worked yesterday. Can you please make sure its not your tower down… I’ll ring again sir… tic tic tic… Oh I sorry Sir yes there is actually a problem with the tower technical had not advised us… why not… we wait till a customer has a problem to investigate sir… so I’m an unpaid consultant and I’ve just spent 28 minutes of time and its cost me about $21.00 to call you.

So the final point get pertinent operational information to your customer interface.

Personal attention: don’t hide behind automated telephone services.

How many times have your seen the notice “online help not available”. How many answering machines and punch in the numbers systems have driven you crazy… people deal with people not machines no matter how good you think they are. If you are going to provide self-help tools or support make sure they are foolproof, easy, easy, easy and reliable. Supermarkets nowadays not only provide shoppers with a range of trolleys and baskets one I was in the other day had self-checkout, wow it was quick easy and effective.

Number Five… perhaps you could tell me by way of a comment… sorry

I like this quote by Steve Tobak “The only thing more powerful than delivering a great product is saying you’re going to deliver a great product and then doing it.” So perhaps five is tell the world what you will do and then make sure you do it!

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OLD DAYS – MONOPOLIES / LESS COMPETITION / LESS EXPECTANT CUSTOMERS / (STILL ‘NOW’ FOR SOME)


Boss Responsibility/Decisions are made at the top


Middle Management

Staff Staff Staff Staff Responsiveness/Support stay at the ‘bottom’


Customer Customer Customer Customer Customer

If, as it is now more than ever, a reality that a vast array of alternative choices are available, the power over the organization rapidly shifts to the receiver of products or services and away from the providers. Two great examples of this “reality” are the telecommunications and banking industries. As these industries have been deregulated, providing the customer with the power to choose, the management and staff of these industries have had to find new technologies, systems and of course methods of structuring themselves to maintain their market share. The ‘new’ reality therefore looks more like this:

TODAY – TOUGHER COMPETITION / GLOBALIZATION / MORE CHOICE / EDUCATED & EXPECTANT…


Customer Customer Customer Customer Customer

Staff Staff Staff Staff Responsibility and Decisions are made at the top


Middle Management

Boss Responsiveness and Support stay at the ‘bottom’


So the burning question becomes:

ARE YOUR STAFF SERVING THE CUSTOMER OR THE BUREAUCRACY?

As you can see in this model (as Ken Blanchard’s staff explained to me some years ago) it is important to note that the responsibility to manage, particularly the customer relations remains at the top. In part two I will discuss what this means for both staff and management.

1. Their Name- Nothing speaks to an individual faster than their first name. Use it to build your relationship with your customer.

2. What They’ve Purchased- If you know what your customers purchased in the past, you have a good idea what they will buy again. (And won’t waste your time promoting products of little to no interest.)

3. How Often They Purchase- Individuals who buy rarely from you may need additional encouragement – more marketing. Whereas, consistent customers may not need extra sales pitches, but might benefit from a newsletter or coupon.

Ric comment: Perhaps the sentence above should read “sales contacts” as “pitches” are an outdated and inefficient mode of selling.

4. How Much They Spend (on average)- Why spend precious time pitching (there’s that no no word again) products to customers that they can’t afford? It might embarrass your customer, shows your lack of personal interest, and may cause customers to lose interest.

5. The Last Time They Purchased- Have you lost a customer without even knowing it? Who’s still loyal? Who has strayed (and needs to be brought back)?

6. Each Interaction You’ve Had With Them- Documentation is important for obvious reasons. But being able to “recall” previous conversations will make your customer feel important and appreciated.

7. How They Feel About Your Business- Feedback from your customers is the best way to improve your products/services, meet your customers needs, and attract more customers.”

And from me:

8. What is the one thing (other than price) we can do to help you more- This is an essential question for all salespeople to ask

9. Who are his/her their friends- Do you know anyone that you do business with as a supplier or customer that would benefit from our product or service

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This is something that I have learned about selling and customers.

“When your selling something first you need to make sure that it meets the needs [or wants] of people you’re trying to sell to however remember that no matter what… “your customer is always right”. You need to build a good relationship with them because if you can build trust with them then more than likely they will buy from you over and over as long as you have what they want to buy.

This is just my experience from being in sales for years. I’m no expert however I have learned a few things along the way.

- They [the prospects] are wanting something that will fix their problem or help them with what ever it might be.

- Also you need to have a good attitude with them in other words be nice to them ask them if there’s anything you can help them with or if they don’t want what they bought then offer them money back or see if they might want to exchange the item for something else or so [to maintain long term loyalty].

- Most important thing you will not always sell something, people like to look around first to see if they can get a better deal or for a lower price.

- Always treat your customers the way you would want to be treated and you just might see results. With out any customers then you don’t have a business. One thing I learned was that after they buy from you always tell them than you for doing business with you or buying because like I said before if you don’t have customers  then you want have a business at all to sell things.”

Gary Wilson
http://thewilsonenterprises.com

Thanks Gary… rictownsend [items are Ric addins/edits]